Seattle and more personally, Forks, provided needed relief from the traumatic experience of May 31, 2008 for me. My kids had moved on from the utterly magic Harry Potter books to the equally imaginative Twilight novels set in the rainiest part of the country. For the cloud cover provided, the Cullens could come and go during daylight hours without disclosing their vampire secret. Here, the Predator in Chief hopes to "reassure" the voting block he covets, that it is for THEIR interests that he is campaigning. Face it: the blood of the Congressional Majority has been drained and their trusting hearts stomped. No fresh meat in his D.C. or Chicago hunting grounds, the Chief heads back to the children, to the "Future." Frank Lutz always positions a well-dressed, highly made-up black woman in the front row of his focus group presentations for Fox. Any effort to get a feel for how the WOMEN view the Democrats in the upcoming election polls are routinely eclipsed by the DADT crowd-em-out buzzards doing what they do: hijacking the conversation for their obsession-driven agenda. Little do the Democrats understand that it is these selfish, line-jumping, over-amplified voices who have soured the electorate on "the One." The HOPE for which they voted has been repeatedly trumped by the Women of Color and the Same Sex Sillies, kicked over by the Abortion fanatics. To the largest voting block: White, Middle-Aged, under-employed women, none of these issues matter. The very thing that made us 'vulnerable' to the fly swatting "It" One is the same thing that nullifies his appeal today. We're menopausal. We worked, fought, joined, paid dues, volunteered, ... we did it all! And we watched while the 40 Somethings we helped elect, Women like Claire McCaskill, stiffed us with a HOPE Chain that "changed the game" on us just as we were about to cross the threshold into the national election for the Oval Office. What we thought was the negotiating table became a poker table with wild cards introduced to throw the girls off THEIR game. I learned something observing my sisters' reaction. I already KNEW that this moment demanded - NOT a reaction, but a RESPONSE. Women turned into yammering sixth graders, crying "No Fair!"and now talk themselves through the pain with resolve and lessons learned, taken to heart.
I look around and recognize how little my heritage seemed to give me. As I work, fail and pursue happiness, however, I come to understand the gift MY Grandmother gave me: Business Woman, deli, bakery, "crocheterie" and blue rinse with a tear for choices left wanting when musts demanded. Speaking Italian, expecting a daily visit from my Dad, who complied much to my mother's Irish displeasure, and weeping as Connie sang "Mama" from her Sylvania Blue Tube TV.http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9n9XAjVmY60 it occurs to me that Grandma Robinson is there for the girls, praying heartfelt, for the souls challenged by the reality of now. To protect your children, be strong. Forgive those Moms who lapsed just long enough to force themselves to make an impossible choice. In the end, what you leave your children is the image of yourself standing up to all of it, for them. Keep your head down. Keep at it. Find it in the work. When you're done, she'll be there to gather you in her arms, to protect you from all the threats of the world that is but a screen upon which your competition projects fear. In your Mothers' Arms, the illusion of threat is dispelled and you do what you must do.
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